About Me
Two suitcases and a one way plane ticket.
As I stood in the empty living room of my once comfortably furnished luxury apartment in San Francisco,’I wondered how I got here. All of the material things were gone –the car, the furniture, the clothing, the shoes. The apartment was the last thing to go. The scant remainder of everything I owned was now
safely stored in an unused closet in my parents home or in one of my suitcases.
And I couldn’t have been happier.
“Here is where the luster of life really begins.” I thought. I didn’t know how right I was.
My background is in health care. I worked for two years at the National Cancer Institute, but found Public Health to be unfulfilling. I moved to California. I was a young professional with a promising career in a large healthcare organization in San Francisco.
Great job, fantastic city, six weeks of paid vacation every year. I was living my own version of the American Dream.
My change started in 2006. In the middle of a lengthy business meeting a voice said, “I don’t want to do this anymore.” I jumped. The voice was so loud and clear, it was as if the person sitting next to me had said the words. I looked for the source of the voice and quickly realized that I was said these words to
myself. The message was clear. I asked myself if I didn’t want to do this anymore, what did I want to do?
My question was met with silence.
I went though my own process of exploration and change and through the many dead ends, u-turns, thrills, failures, and bouts of self-discovery I carved a new life pathway for myself. It involved four years, quitting a job that was financially rewarding, but spiritually unfulfilling, selling everything, moving abroad, and embarking on a new career. I am several years into this international journey. I have never regretted my decisions.
I have lived in and traveled to several countries, met wonderful and interesting people, spoken foreign languages, and managed to financially and emotionally support myself through it all. Most important, I managed to find career nirvana – well, I’m on my way to finding career nirvana.
This is my story of how – at the ripe old age of 30 I gave up everything and started anew abroad. I’ve encountered so many people who say, “That’s wonderful, I wanted to do that, but I could never find the courage.”
Well I’m nothing special. No more courageous than anyone else. I took a very tall leap off of a very short platform and lived to blog about it.
I’ve been there and done that myself. I am finding my own way to the other side. This is my story.
Sounds wonderfull …
Good luck with that – and welcome to copenhagen.
We are doing a project http://www.socialsemantic.eu – (for fun and not pay) – there is a tun of stuff we are not getting done – maybee I see you do alot of social tweets, you blog etc. and couldn’t help to write because of your story – it really sounds like what a lot of folks should do!
I work with http://www.Sitecore.net for a real job. maybee that might actually work out for you as they are growing pretty fast – and are getting to be truely international.
Anyway – drop me a line if you want to chip in @socialsemantic.eu
sincerely Jan
Thank you for your comment Jan! I am starting a new full time job in the next two weeks, so I need to see how my schedule sorts out before I commit to any new projects. I’ll keep it in mind once I have a better picture of my schedule.
I was reading through the Ted conversations, and ran across one of your comments. Out of curiosity I clicked on your picture and then on this link.
How wonderful that you are living abroad!!! I myself moved to Japan to teach when I was 27 years old, and single. It was exciting, and it was when I grew the most as a professional, and as a person. I made lifelong friends. Now, 23 years later, married with children, I am so happy that I travelled and got to enjoy living in another culture. It has helped me to be the open minded individual I am today. I feel I am a magnet for foreigners. Just this morning I met “Gladys, from Burundi”…she was shopping in Wal-Mart with a baby sleeping comfortably inside a wrap she wore around her. Even though my circumstances have changed, and I’ve set up house here in Florida, my love of people from all cultures has not changed.
All the best. Enjoy your youth, it doesn’t last long. Be careful also.
Thank you for the comment Mary! I want to enjoy this stage of life as long as I can!
Hey!! really nice post, it was great to read it. Actually, i totally understand your feelings, since I have done quite the same thing. I had a job in Madrid, but I decided to leave everything and come here to Malmö (i guess you know it, in the other side of copenhagen sea
That was months ago, and I am still fighting to get a job (telecom industry bytheway) but as you say, the expirience completely fulfill my heart now.
Take care!!
Thank you for the comment – good luck in making it in Malmo!
Hey!! That was a really nice post. Came across it as I was rifling thru “Larry Smith: Why you will fail to have a great career”. The first sentence about two suitcases and a one way ticket touched a nerve in a good way! That’s how my story began in the US about 8 years ago. It’s a good thing you realized the importance of traveling light. Even better is the fact that you have taken the time to understand what you are looking for. Good luck in Copenhagen and in your travels!
Thanks for the encouragement!
I just recently discovered your blog and will be reading your older post. I find your lifestyle very inspiring.
Thank you : )
Hi sweetie, I found you as I researched a paper on divorce in the TED.com. I am going to forward your blog to a few young ladies. thanks for the inspiration.
Thank you!
I’m here in Riga right now, which is how I stumbled upon your video, then ultimately your blog. I am new to this (blogging) and not much of a Social Media guy. However, i found your stories to be VERY interesting, inspirational and just plain ole entertaining.
A lot of commonalities which peaks my interest. I grew up in the Inner City of Chicago and to date have traveled more places than I can even keep up with, professionally and personally. What a great venue to share those experiences with the world, besides Facebook and Twitter.
Leaving Riga in 4 days, heading back to Germany where I live, then will be in Vilnius, LTU in a month. Would love to compare notes with you. Feel free to email me.
-JC